My brothers and I got together last night to talk and laugh
a bit, as our families grew and so did responsibilities we don’t have
the chance to meet as often as we would like. So we make sure to get together once
in a while, an hour or two to keep up the relationship.( Even though blood runs
deeper than water but it’s the most talked about secret that any relationship
needs to be tended to and nurtured in order to reap all the benefit from it.)
But let me not get sidetracked and let’s focus on this lesson that can help you
in your venture of success.
Loneliness, how I see it whenever we humans are
struggling chugging along, trying to reach our dreams or goals, challenges
have to be overcome, and this struggle involves you and only you
alone. Family and friends are great for
the support of believing in you and offering the shoulder to cry on. But the actual struggle, especially the
actual mental part of the struggle you’re on your own.
Let me elaborate on this topic
1) What I mean that we are
alone in this journey of struggle.
2)
Why this concept is so
important to understand.
We are all unique individuals and not only do we look
differently on the outside but we are differently on the inside as well. Each of us is a unique blend of personalities
and with these differences in place we all have to travel the journey that is
called life. This journey starts from
the second we’re born till the day from this world we part.
Now like all traveling, having your friend travel the
road, won’t bring you closer to your destination. The only thing that you
benefit from the travels of your friend are his experience, you can learn from
what he did right and what he did wrong and see if you can apply them to your
journey and to your nature and circumstances.
Each of us has his unique dreams and aspirations that we’d
like to achieve and even if we can imagine someone doing the manual and physical
work for us but the mental work is still only ours and no one can feel the mental
struggle that each individual goes thru they can only relate to it.
Now knowing and understanding the above can" be a very important
tip for your journey to success".
As I
see it a lot of average people with dreams, feel isolated and alone when talking about their
dreams with their family and peers. Since family and friends usually don’t
share or even understand what’s pushing and motivating you towards your goals. And the feeling of being alone can demotivate and discourage a person, it makes them start to doubt themselves and think maybe my
family and friend's are right when they roll their eyes at me, maybe they are right and this is a foolish dream to pursue.
By understanding, that no one can understand completely your
passion and dreams and what they mean to you, so this will ultimately be a journey
that only you can travel. This is the normal fact of life, and their not
understanding and looking at you with pity in their eyes is all the fact of
your specialty and individuality and it’s up to you to work hard and not give
up and develop and make blossom the passion and dreams of your heart.
So let’s all stand up and raise our chins with pride and
instead of trudging along lets march along to the beat of life and say with all
our might WE CAN DO IT AND WE WILL.
Good luck to your dreams and aspirations and if you enjoyed this article please do share it with your friends.
Pinny
pinnysthoughts@gmail.com
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